sorry I should have been more specific, our marriage is great and I am in the military, I would like to be able to log on to the net and see whats happening at home, watch my kid playing, etc. it would make me feel a lot closer while I am deployed elsewhere. and if she knew it was there she wouldn't be herself, I guess its hard to explain, maybe Im a wierdo. also I want to keep an eye on babysitters too.