Thanks rory, that is awesome because I may have found part of the solution so far but was struggling to join all the avi's. I found VirtualDub so long, tested it with another avi, raised the thresh-hold and it seems to detect the changes - so it seems to offer some type of lighting/motion detection abilities.
Now virtualdub also allows appending of avi's but it seems to be one at a time, unless there are other methods with VD I haven't found yet. I'm going to try your link above tomorrow. I may be half way there however it will be worth it in the long run as this will come in handy often.
2:30am off to bed.
Thanks for the assistance, will work on it again tomorrow