Thanks for Your answer.
I checked that from another place, with old laptop with xp, all work, but I have not seen by my comp. on win7 x64 IE 10,inquiry about install something from "rifatron" (on xp it was) , of course I know what is activex, and what should I do with security on IE.
Something is missing...
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when I try to connect via VMS program for DVR it's told- [Microsoft][ODBC Driver Manager] Data source name not found and no default driver specified....