Old post or not, it appears the initial poster was seeking help and not ridicule or to be on the receiving end of Dirk_D's cutting sarcasm.
It is a pleasant thing to see Brettliff rebuke his unwarranted response.
We all require help at times and some more than others.
Might help to remember this before lashing out just because there seems to be no consequence for doing so.
(By the way, it's written, the LORD sees everything and we will all have to give account of every idle word)
As for getting along with other members tomcctv, what about judging righteous judgement for a change?
Ah, to keep this all in perspective, it's also written, rebuke a wise man and he will love you but rebuke a fool and he will hate you.
Night.