Ok then heres the answer guys.
Many said to downgrade from IE7 to IE6, but with a new version of Vista its IE7 as standard.
So what about Firefox ?
Nope still would not work.
So we tried a browser called Maxthon, ( 1.6 - Classic verson - Not 2.0 ) its free so had nothing to loose.
It asked if we wanted to download the ActiveX content, yes please.
This was the point that IE7 stopped.
But Maxthon , loaded it up and we are now veing remotelly.
Next step is to test this out of a 64bit Vista system.
We must have spent about 3 hours on this, and i hope this thread will help others to save a bit of time