helpme

I would like someone, especilly chengy, to help me with thmy e0mail notification setup. I have tried everything! Including what you all have done. I need someone to take me through step by step in detail. Please. this is a function that I absolutely need to work. This security system isnt a toy for me. I need it. But it was all I could afford. Can someplease help me with email ntification. If it helps, I am trying to use gmx email.