First thank you for your help....
ok..
1) I can see the camera via yoosee app, camera was added by the software, the NVR can also "see" it in the list but it wont connect (showing what i have shown you)
2) recorder got 16 bnc inputs incase i need it as a dvr only
3) ranging between 2mp to 5mp depending on the position.. so far 5 cameras, but since i moved from no-brand 30$ cameras to reolink i get better results..
thanks again